Learning that your elderly parent needs major surgery is an incredibly stressful time in everyone’s life. There is no doubt fear involved, as everyone is hoping for the best outcome. And while much of the focus is directed at the surgery itself, there is also the equally important after-care. Following all the right steps will help ensure they have a successful recovery.
Here are some of the ways you can help your elderly parent to recover from major surgery.
Speak with Their Doctor Together – Be Clear on the Recovery Steps
The first thing is to speak to your parent’s doctor, together with your parent, and go over the recovery process. This should be done before and after surgery, in case any steps or expectations change post-surgery. It’s a good idea to bring a notepad and pen to the appointment so you can write down the information. You’ll be glad you did so when you refer back to it in the coming days and weeks.
Follow All Instructions to the Letter
Now is not the time to veer from the instructions or try a DIY approach to recovery. It’s important to follow all instructions to the letter which can mean rest, a specific diet, medication that needs to be carefully managed, attending doctor check-ups and appointments, physiotherapy and so forth.
If Something Seems Off, Don’t Wait for Things to Get Worse
The hope is that recovery is a straight line but that’s not always the case. Sometimes complications occur, and these can be serious if left unchecked. If something seems off, your parent is experiencing constant pain, their wound (from an incision during surgery) isn’t healing, or if you have any other concerns, it’s best to make an appointment with their doctor immediately.
What If They Need Round the Clock Care and Support?
Major surgery is hard on anybody at any age, but what happens if your elderly parent isn’t in great health and is now facing a long and difficult recovery after surgery? What if they need round-the-clock care for their well-being and safety? You can’t just move them in with you during the recovery, as their care will be more than you can handle on your own. Assisted living facilities are fabulous for seniors, but they are meant for those who are still active, mobile and don’t need constant care.
You can look into an extended stay at a skilled nursing facility, as these offer 24/7 support and assistance so that your parent can focus on their recovery and you don’t have to worry about them. This kind of care is ideal for a senior whose daily activities and medical care needs are too great to be living at home on their own, with you or even in an assisted living facility.
You can do your research and look for a facility that doesn’t just offer 24/7 nursing care but also social events and activities so that they enjoy their time. Visit Medical & Aged Care Group if you are interested in aged care services.
Preparing your parent for their upcoming major surgery is only half the battle, as the recovery itself can be just as intense and last quite a long time. Using these tips will help to make the path a little smoother.